Do not hold on to resentment, it will only hurt you in the end… Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. No matter what they did… And this also includes forgiving yourself. Just let go.

”He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he  must pass himself; for every man has need to be forgiven.” –  Thomas Fuller

”Forgiveness is the final form of love.” – Reinhold Niebuhr

”When you forgive, you in no way change the past – but you  sure do change the future.” – Bernard  Meltzer